It seems like it would be easier to just not do PB&J sandwiches than switching to sunflower/soy. There's a lot of different kinds of food out there; doesn't seem like leaving the peanut filled ones off the menu would restrict their options that much. My toddler eats PB&J a lot because he's picky but I'm hoping by the time he gets to school he will eat a bit more of a variety. If schools are peanut free by then, he'll just have to deal with it.

So the hot lunch and bag lunch kids don't sit together? How strange. When I was a kid, it was a day by day thing. Some days I brought a lunch, some days I had a hot lunch. We all sat together. I guess things have changed in the last couple decades.

Good luck with your meetings!

Michelle